Hope Notes | No. 76
Our weekly newsletter filled with resources + reminders that you’re not alone. ♥︎
"The bravest thing you will ever do is choose yourself after being taught to survive without you." — Desborne O'Neil
This week’s post
The way we feel about divorce is complex, nuanced, and deeply personal. For some, it feels like a celebration and a fresh start. For others, it represents a profound loss and grief that can take a long time to process.
Wherever you find yourself on the spectrum of divorce emotions, know this: we see you, your experience matters, and your feelings are valid. 🫶🏻🫶🏽
This week’s podcast
Hillary was recently featured as a guest on The Grit Files with host and executive endurance coach Laura Reynolds (listen here). In this candid conversation, they explored the deep human desire to be chosen, and how tying our worth to being chosen by someone else can impact our marriages, our relationships, and the way we move through life.
The Grit Files dives into the untold stories behind resilience, exploring the moments of challenge, self-discovery, and growth that shape who we become. If you’ve ever faced a season where you had to rebuild, redefine yourself, or keep moving forward despite uncertainty, this conversation is one you may relate to!
This week’s freebie
Last month, during our No Match May Challenge, we spent a lot of time talking about “dating yourself” with our friend Coach Kelly Edens @_rooted_in_growth_ 🩵
But what does that actually mean? Dating yourself can look like:
✨ Getting to know yourself again
✨ Making intentional time for yourself
✨ Planning solo adventures and experiences
✨ Living in alignment with your values
Solo dates are a really fun way to get to know yourself better and have experiences that don’t require you to wait around for anyone else. For some fun ideas to get started, download our free Solo Date Bingo Card.
🍑See you next week, Atlanta!
Atlanta friends: we’re coming your way next week for two amazing events and we can’t wait to meet you!
The Show About Divorce
Wednesday, June 17 | 7:30 PM at Punchline Comedy Club 🎤
We’re teaming up with Rob Roseman of @wtfdivorce to bring you The Show About Divorce, an evening of storytelling centered around the theme:
“Didn’t See That Coming”
Stories about the shocks, surprises, and real-life plot twists of relationship detours.
Six storytellers. Seven minutes each. Honest, funny, heartbreaking, hopeful stories about divorce and the unpredictability of uncoupling.
Community Meetup at Scofflaw Brewing Co.
Thursday, June 18 | 6–8 PM at Scofflaw Brewing Co. (MacArthur)
Join us for an evening of community, connection, and hope for navigating any stage of uncoupling.
Come blow off some divorce steam, celebrate a milestone, or simply connect with people who understand what it’s like to navigate the end of a long-term partnership.
Your ticket includes snacks, swag, and a curated selection of resources for your rebuilding journey — plus Scofflaw has plenty of beverages to choose from. 🍻
Our group will be there from 6–8 PM, but feel free to arrive earlier or stay later. Look for Bethany, Hillary, and the Sincerely, Divorced signage when you arrive.
Come as you are and leave feeling a little lighter. Everyone is welcome — all genders, ages, identities, and relationship experiences included. We can’t wait to remind you that you are never alone. 🩵
This week’s reel
Man, this is hard. 🤓
Have a good weekend, friends! Remember: hope always wins! 🩵